1.  I don't want any pictures on the single page due to me using video I need one but would like to add code to remove it. Work around until I get help with removing the pic on single page. Turned off feature pic and turned on first pic to load and resized the image within the page to make it tiny.
2. Files not uploaded through the media library don't show in the libary, FTP uploads nore server moves.  Work around until I get help! Used URL of the media file in the same file folder that cant be seen in media folder. 
3. Also for the media/videos that play from my site I see that you can download them I don't want that. How do I mod the player to stop that? I have no work around for this other than to remove the videos.

www.vdjbigcom/wp  currently I am testing before I transition to this WordPress theme.THE PASSWORD IS DEFAULT ADMIN PASS

1. when I use feature picture it puts a picture at the top of the single page so it would require code to remove it, and yes I tried using remove on single page but that doesn't work either because it's a video form.
2. yes you see the video that was uploaded through the media Library because it was small enough to be uploaded, again the library does not recognize  anything uploaded using ftp or moving in the folder from the server. I found a plugin to fix the issues allowing me to upload larger files to the media folder. It should still see them without the plugin. 
3. that sucks..... I'm new to word press and your theme I downloaded another plug in. FIXED
4. My post below told you how I have worked around the issue but they are not resolved I am sure others will ask at least they will see something if they search for some work around's.. You can close the ticket. I will figure it out.